Some couples who had been so used to living together may equate the bedroom to routine and boredom. But remember those times that the bedroom used to be the sanctuary of romance and kinkiness for you and your partner? It is the most common place where couples get intimate. I came up with sexy ideas for the bedroom, which varies from nice to naughty activities, props or just any creative idea that would surely please your partner and eventually add spice to your relationship.
1. Dress to be undressed
Have you been in the so-called comfort zone that you now only wear sloppy oversized shirts and plain pjs when you go to bed? For a change, get yourself a cute lingerie and surprise your honey. According to my guy friends, they love to see their girl in matching lacey underwears. This is quiet easy, but the bottomline is learn to be comfortable in your own skin. This is not just for his sake but for your sake too. He’d surely return the favor for your sexy effort.
2. Breakfast in bed
You may be a certified lazy girl who finds it hard to get up every morning but you may want to try this one once in a while. Wake up early and prepare something tasty for your partner and have a light conversation over breakfast. This will start the day right for the two of you. Brace yourself for a steamy action when he comes home later tonight.
3. Soften the lights in the bedroom
Make the ambiance of your room romantic by changing you white fluorescent bulb into a softer yellow shade. When you’re naked, too much brightness brings out your imperfections more. A dimmer shade on the other hand, brings a more cozy and sexy feel inside the room.
4. Simple note
Leave a kinky note for your partner on a visible part of the room before you step out. This will surely rev up his excitement. (Tip: Post-its would do.)
5. Give your bedroom a makeover
Bring out the silky satin sheets. Turn your love nest into a romantic setting. You may also want to rearrange the furniture to make it feel like you’re in a new place. By doing this, you kill the boredom brought about by too much familiarity in that area of the house.
6. Give him a sensual massage
Treat your man into a sensual massage. This will help him de-stress and be more relaxed. Be sure to touch him on his most erotic zone but save the best for last. You may also want to get on top of him when you’re done and start the real action. Trust me, guys love it when their partners initiate the act.