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10 reasons I would never date a fat man
- By Elaine Jacelle
- Published 08/9/2007
- Health and Body
I bet some may oppose my opinion on this, but I hope that there are girls out there who are not hypocrites to admit that all things being equal, they would rather choose the athletic type over the big fat guy. I’m slender, but not the Nicole Richie anorexic type, and never in my wildest dream will I date a fat man. Here’s why:
1. If I am with a fat man, I may be tempted to eat like him
If I am with a fat guy and he’s the type who eats every chance he gets, what am I suppose to do? Watch him eat? That’s so pathetic. I mean, I may be tempted to join him especially if he’s munching on my favorite desert and that would really ruin my diet. I would rather be with a health buff who knows how to watch his calories.
2. I can’t imagine having sex with a fat dude!
A fat dude naked in front of me? Sorry, if it’s cold and heartless of me, but it’s not a nice sight. Plus what positions can we do with his fat ass? I’m the type of girl who’d rather keep the lights on to see the masculine aura of my guy. A muscle is hot, fat is not!
Actually there are a lot of things I would like to point out in this section. A fat guy would easily be out of breath. I wonder if he has the energy to keep up with me. Athletic guys have the stamina when it comes to intimacy in between the sheets but a fat man will doze to sleep, snoring loud after the first round. That’s actually based on experience and some common sense. Come on ladies, agree with me.
3. Being fat may possible be a reflection of his inner mess
Okay, not-the-typical-me, but let’s get intellectual here. In a psychological point of view, some people tend to overeat as a way to divert themselves from their frustrations. They turn to compulsive over-eating which makes them obese. They don’t overeat just because the food is sumptuous but there’s something deeper than that. Honestly, I don’t want to date a guy who has a lot of psychological troubles.
4. The physical attribute of a person shows how disciplined he is
Again, intellectually speaking (duh!), an obese body is just a reflection of their lack of self-control. We all can look trim and sexy if we want to and the crucial part is, if we exert effort. But what do these so-called-big guys do? They choose to eat and be a loser. Okay you may have naturally good-looking genes, so why let it go to waste? Hit the gym before you ask me out!
5. I don’t want to be asked this question: "What did you see in that fat bf of yours?"
To some extent we all consider the looks, right? I’m not a fat loser, I’m gorgeous and I can prove that. If I date a fat guy, I would expect that I would be bombarded with a lot of questions why I am dating him. The last thing I want is to defend my choice to every individual out there. So I see to it, that I am proud of my taste when it comes to guys. Please, don’t be a plastic, I know you’d be more proud if the guy towering beside you have six-pack abs than a flabby stomach.
6. I don’t want to get attention for the wrong uncool reasons
This may be related to the reason I just stated above. A big fat guy is so "visible" wherever we go. Those very honest kids at the groceries may be pointing at us asking their mom’s why he is such a fat guy. Well, you know, kids ask a lot of why’s. If you are at a party, an athletic guy is a hotter accessory than a fat guy. I may look classy and sophisticated, but it may ruin my chances of being the star of the night because of my preference.
7. Because it’s a small world
If he’s too big, he may take up all the space in bed. I may not even feel comfortable with him in the car (just in case we have a small one). We may not fit together if we enter the door at the same time. The shower may feel too crowded, considering that it’s just the two of us. I told you, it’s a small world (lol).
8. In case of emergency, a fat guy can’t run fast
Well, I am just trying to be hilarious but it’s true. What I would really like to emphasize here is that, I am the outdoor type who digs fun activities and sports.
Since he’s fat, I think it’s reasonable for me to assume that he’d rather watch it than engage in the real action. How can I convince him to go hiking, swimming, or skiing with me when he’s a certified couch potato? Maybe I won’t really invite him, he won’t look good in those fitted sportswear anyway. What an eyesore!
9. His fart may really stink!
I know what I said is gross, so I’ll keep it sweet and short. He’s fat, eats anything he fancies and does not even exercise. So what do you expect? A really stinky fart will destroy the romance when he accidentally release the gas in the bedroom. It’s not even funny!
10. Last but not the least, because I am shallow (I bet that’s what you’re thinking)
I am not afraid to admit to myself and to people here that I care about what the society thinks about me. Again, all things being equal (except for the weight, of course), would you choose a fat guy over an athletic guy? Don’t get me wrong, I do have a big heart. Maybe if he really loves me, he’d go to the gym and remove his excess baggage. I guess a better reason for him to do this is if he really loves himself. Enough said.
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 9:52:52 AM EST
Funny and witty! :) But I love big teddy bears too!
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 10:18:18 AM EST
This world is going to Hell in a handbasket
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 10:29:35 AM EST
You are right fat people slack at taking care of themselves. it's true you could exercise or just eat less / more healthy. All is choice in the life.
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 11:11:30 AM EST
11. - They wheeze when going up stairs.
The flight of stairs is the fatty's natural predator. |
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 11:15:49 AM EST
You're right, you are very shallow. If a potential date is fat, then he's the type of guy who's confident in his own skin; some of the best people I know are overweight, fatness doesn't reflect inner mess. Their farts won't necessarily stink either, some people are fat because of how their body works, so that's a stupid point. Some day you'll wake up and realize you have thighs the size tsunamis, and you won't be able to get with any guy, while these fat guys will probably be dating younger, better looking, skinnier girls. That's just how your superficial world works unfortunately. Then you wont have a choice but to attract attention for the wrong reasons. Make some sense woman.
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 1:50:53 PM EST
"copy and paste", I bet you are a fat woman or man, I dunno but you sound kinda defensive! She's right, being fat is a choice! so go hit the gym!
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 3:46:47 PM EST
How about 10 reasons I'd never date a shallow, vain woman...
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said this on 09 Aug 2007 4:35:40 PM EST
Elaine, I love you. I love women like you. It's females like yourself that allow me to only sleep alone when I absolutely want to.
Pay attention men. Life gets a helluva lot better after spending a few hours a week in the gym for a few months. Work, play, sex, sports, life! It all gets better. Some apsects of life get better because you are physically able to do them effectively. Other aspects of life get better because... well... our society treats physically attractive people better than... than... the fugs. What? I don't make the fucking rules. I do know the rules, finally. And I'm playing to win. #3 is VERY true. Once I got over all of my insecurities and the bullshit I had in my head, I found the motivation (and self-love) to get my pudgy butt to the gym. #9 is damn funny. I'll have you know that I am very athletic, but you will have a hard time finding someone who has smellier farts than I. I take great pride in this. As a former pudgy, I wholeheartedly agree with Elaine and her blatantly shallow and superficial post. Stay superficial, Elaine. Wimmens like yerself keep us womanizers happy out here. -R |
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said this on 10 Aug 2007 4:49:47 AM EST
you're just being honest! :)
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said this on 11 Aug 2007 4:54:07 AM EST
Lookin' 4ward to more juicy articles from you!
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said this on 16 Aug 2007 4:50:14 AM EST
I wonder how Elaine looks like!?
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said this on 16 Aug 2007 8:23:28 PM EST
I totally aggree with this whole post, now, being honest, iv never been a 'fat guy' but i have been overweight, which makes my face look pudgy, and therfore ugly, i had a long date free school experience, i was never superficial, i had a few larger girlfriends, who were really awesome i must say, tons of personallity, lots of fun, (im not talking about morbid obesity here, just overweight girls) my eyes were opened to how unsatisfactory this was, when talking with a friend of mine about his skinny beautiful girlfriend, he was no better looking than i, but slightly slimmer, he told me that his life was 100% better since he started working out, a catalyst for this thought process was.. well we went to a lap dancing club, and just having all those beautiful skinny shallow as fcuk women around me really made me realise what i was missing out on.. to be honest im about 1/3 of the way to achieving my goal.. but this story is so true, we all have the ability to change ourselves, those who dont aggree with the article or this comment, are like i used to be, they have not realised WHY they need to change, and are not motivated... you know i should just go the whole 9 yards and write my own huge article
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said this on 19 Sep 2007 2:13:34 PM EST
I understand the point of the story but at the same time I can't tell you how depressed I am after reading this.
I'm a 'fat guy' but it's not because I eat junk food and don't exercise. I eat better and work out way more then most people I know but because of bad genetics and a severe thyroid disorder my doctor has said that me being 'athletic' was virtually impossible. I've always hoped that my personality was enough to get together with someone special but I see now why at 27 I've never really dated. So sad... Oh, and by the way, I eat so well (whole fruits, vegetable, etc.) that I don't have problems with bad gas, just so you know. |
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said this on 23 Sep 2007 10:55:18 AM EST
First off, Elaine...I would just like to say you're a complete and utter fucking moron and people like you are the reason that men build guns.
"Fat guys farts stink?" Are you fucking kidding me? Are you actually serious?? EVERYONE'S FARTS STINK YOU STUCK UP FUCKING TWAT! First off...a little background...I'm 6'9" and 400 lbs. I have been a big guy my whole fucking life, and I'm not ashamed of it one fucking bit. Secondly, I have had some of the hottest fucking pussy ever in my life. And you know what? It was from ordinary girls. You know..the ones bitches like you fucking talking shit about while you get drunk and suck random cock and think you're fucking cool. Let me give you fucking boneheads a little physics lesson. I played football for 12 years. High School, College, and Semi Pro. I played against them all, meatheads like Mr. Studly up there, and fucking little skinny pricks with something to prove by tackling the fat guy. And I've demolished them all. Why? Because I'm fat and better than you. I can run the 40 in 4.8...and I'm 400 lbs...so don't tell me I can't move fast cunt. I hit with a force of 1200 plus pounds, so I would probably wreck your six pack sporting asshat of a boyfriend in one hit. It's simple physics bitch...the 300 pound tub of lard kicks the SHIT out of the 150 lb Muscle Head any day of the week. Ask any Goddamn fight trainer. He'll tell you. Winded walking up the stairs? lol What fucking morons. I cannot wait until this world is destroyed and people like you are sent to hell. That is all morons. |
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said this on 07 Mar 2009 9:44:41 PM EST
No shit, i totally agree with you, im not fat or pleasantly plump, infact im trying to gain weight (im 5'10 and weight 120 lbs) but, my best friend is fat, and not only does he have a really good looking girlfriend, but he plays guard on the highschool team, and demolishes most everybody he meets. Elain, your a cunt.
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said this on 27 Apr 2009 11:17:26 PM EST
u know wat mate...ur righ they may get sent to hell for talkin about people like this...ive always felt better round fat people than skinny and thats a fact, soz if theyve offended u dude but i do like fatties... :)
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said this on 27 May 2009 7:24:29 AM EST
right on brotha!!! i'm considered very attractive but i'd never date this dumb bitch!!
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said this on 19 Sep 2009 2:58:27 PM EST
Its just her opinion. No different that when a girl says she doesn't date black guys. In the military its very few and far between that fatties can train at a high physical level. Big deal you can play football. Can you manuver through a urban combat zone with over 110 lbs on your body in 120 deg temperatures..doubt it . Not with you being 400 lbs. That is stupid comment that because you weigh more you can beat somebody up. No matter how much you weigh bones break with the same amount of force when applied. It doesn't matter who weighs more, it comes down to who has a stronger will to live and survive. Try getting into a real situation where its life and death, and not a place where someone spilled a beer on you. Get real!!
I'm American and I'm disgusted with how people in general have let themselves go. If you have some kind of medical condition that makes you fat, totally different story. If there is nothing wrong with you and your just lazy...get off the couch and hit the gym plain and simple. So what if she is shallow, I wouldn't want to have sex with a fat girl plain and simple. |
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said this on 23 Sep 2007 3:07:20 PM EST
uggggh why are u fucking defensive guys? Admit it, would u want a flabby stomach or a six-pack abs?
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said this on 15 Jan 2009 12:49:19 AM EST
not all slim pple are idots like you...Am sexy and hit the gym all time and I dont look down on pple, so when you decide to pick on overweight dont use slim pple in general.
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said this on 25 Sep 2007 11:30:55 PM EST
A good read, all those fatties need to get their lard asses to the gym or have to settle for fat girls to date.
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said this on 01 Oct 2007 11:42:03 PM EST
Hmmm Joe.... I agree with you!
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said this on 06 Oct 2007 4:22:52 PM EST
I see where you are coming from. Fat phobia is very real.
However, have you ever taken the time to get to know someone who happens to be fat? (NO I am not saying go out and fuck the next fat person you see tonight.) Do you have any overweight friends? What if they saw this article? Fat people have feelings and personalities too. (Shocker I know.) I am not defending fat people because I am one. I am an athletic 5'9" 150 lb woman. I have also dated and fallen in love with a fat man before. I broke up with him because I hid him from my friends in shame and was essentially living a double life. I was afraid of the harassment I would receive from my family and friends. I miss him deeply. I fear have made the worst mistake in my life by letting him go for such stupid and shallow reasons. He had a better personality than any of your jock boyfriends could ever dream of having. You should be ashamed of yourself for picking on people like you just did. What is this 2nd grade? Have a little compassion. A soul would help too. P.S. My farts were ALWAYS more smelly than his. ;) |
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said this on 27 Jan 2008 5:34:03 PM EST
your a bitch damn, i mean ive never heard a bigger load of bullshit. i mean damn ur a bitch. you need to go to hell or something. everyones gets fat its a fact of life. all women look the same at 40 so y the hell is it so important that you date a hot guy. and remember most of you smarter people in this world are fat people. stupid ass cunt bitch. i hope you rot in hell.
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said this on 15 Feb 2008 6:37:23 AM EST
You fuckin piece of shit. youre what this world needs less of. youre probably a dumb bitch who sucks cocks and gets banged for a shot or a beer at the clubs and bars arent you? do everyone who disagrees with this and i a favor and go jump off a cliff and while youre at it take every single asshole in here who thinks the way you do with you. 8o) have a nice day.
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said this on 06 Mar 2008 1:28:28 AM EST
I'm a fat guy, and I absolutely agree with Elaine.
I would never try to go out with an attractive skinny woman like her. It doesn't make sense, and her explanation is the best I can point to. That's why I stick with fat chicks 'cause fat chicks will date fat guys for some reason. |
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said this on 20 Apr 2008 6:28:54 PM EST
blunt and very honest, I like it.
(I am a guy) |
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said this on 16 Jul 2008 12:59:11 AM EST
There are a lot of undisciplined
thin people as well so dont fall for that myth.I have seen lots of thin people that cant stop drinking or put down the drugs or get off their ass and go to work etc...I bet that i could find some undisciplined behavior in your life. If we all can be thin and sexy that easily then no one ever would be fat! You clearly are very ignorant when it comes to food addiction so zip your lip you pseudo intellectual hypocrite! |
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said this on 19 Jul 2008 7:25:01 PM EST
i think u are a load of bullshit i am a fat guy only because of medication i was on when i was 10 yrs old so fuck u. U dumb ass cunt. i am 18 yrs old now and i can do the same shit that a jock can do and i can keep up with them too so go suck a cock and jump off of a fucking cliff plus being fat runs in my genes bitch and i am still an attractive guy i ride my bike for 4 hrs everyday and walk for 6 hrs everyday so suck a dick bitch
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said this on 21 Jul 2008 6:32:45 PM EST
I think there's some truth to what was said there, however I dated a fat man for 4 years and there was never a problem "keeping up" so to speak, in any realm... and although people tend to attribute FAT with lazy and STUPID... well there just isn't always a correlation. I think for the purpose of this whole list or ten reasons not to date a fat man... I think it should be "ten reasons I won't date a fat man" mostly because the claims made are not completely factual, but they seem more like personal preference. The way I figure it, don't date someone you're not attracted to, that's just stupid... but just becuase you're not attracted to someone doesn't mean another person can't be. If that were the case, I'd have a excerpt to say 10 reasons not to date bald men, short men, or men over 30... its all preference! We should ALL be happy with the ones we chose to be with.
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said this on 29 Jul 2008 5:07:06 AM EST
I don't see why everyones making a fuss about this. You're not nearly as annoying as the girl who claims she just doesn't like ethnic men. Fat is a partial choice. If all you lardos complaining got sent to a concentrarion camp, within 6-8 weeks you'd be qualified to date this so called whore.
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said this on 30 Jul 2008 11:37:06 PM EST
This is so wrong. I love having sex
with my boyfriend. I am 5'5" 130lbs and my boyfriend is 5'10" 260lbs. He has no trouble keeping up in the bedroom. she hes over a hundred pounds more than i am, but that doesn't mean hes not amazing at pleasing me. I think this was totally shallow and you should love a guy for who they are and not what they look like. I hope your husband or boyfriend treats you like shit cause you treat people that are different from you like that. Fucking Bitch is what you are. |
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said this on 28 Aug 2008 2:32:29 PM EST
This whole article just pisses me off. I'm 19 years old and overweight. Fat if you wanna be an asshole about it. It has nothing to do with my inner-being. I grew up out of a hotel for 6 years growing up. We didn't have a kitchen and not enough money to get a house or apartment, therefore we ended up eating out almost everyday. Fast food was a good one as we lived around the corner from every fast food chain out there. To add on to that situation, I had asthma so exercise wasn't the easiest thing. In short, Because I couldn't be independent at that age I ended up packing on the pounds. Maxing out at 320lb. I have never had a problem getting with a skinny, attractive girl in my life. The funny part about you saying we can't keep up in bed is that you couldn't be more wrong. In truth she can't keep up with me. We have done every position under the sun and in almost setting.
You also mention we can't run fast in an emergency. That, too, is untrue. I'm faster than half of my skinny friends. You are shallow.. and that's why you deserve the skinny assholes that will abuse you. Everything you say is wrong with fat guys is not necessarily a direct result from their weight. It's possible to be overweight and healthy. |
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said this on 23 Oct 2009 8:05:54 PM EST
So James I didn't realise that it was possible to be "Overweight and Healthy". Where did you get your medical degree from?? Every doctor will tell you that being overweight (especially 320lb) significantly impacts your health. Stop justifying it, you're 19. Theres nothing more shameful then seeing a young person who is fat, old people are lazy, what's your excuse at only 19 years of age?
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said this on 06 Sep 2008 12:02:38 AM EST
#'s 2 and 10 are reasonable. You don't find large men attractive. ATTRACTION ISN'T A CHOICE. That's fine.
#1 is pretty stupid. By this logic, is it a fair assumption on my part that you have no overweight friends or family members? Don't blame other people and their bad habits if you don't have the will power to stick to your personal goals. #5-6 can't be helped. They're really insecurities on your part. If you love someone, you'll stand up for them. It doesn't matter if it's your fat boyfriend or your mother. #7 is a pretty stupid reason too. You could use those reasons to justify never dating a tall man. Beyond that, I strongly disagree with you. I'm a fat guy. I'm also an engineering student. I have no psychological problems. I'm not suffering from depression or any other disorder. The only thing I would change about myself is my weight. Don't lecture overweight people on self-discipline. It's pretty damn easy to gain weight (especially, like in my case, where it occurred when I was a young child). It's the hardest thing a human being would ever have to do in their life (I'm not talking about trimming off 10 pounds, I'm talking about losing half your body weight). As I said before, I'm an engineering student also balancing an active social life... I have better than average self discipline. Fat guys can't run fast? Really? You ever watch football? LOL... it doesn't matter how large someone is if they have muscles and a healthy cardiovascular system to compensate. Maybe you should change your thesis to "10 reasons I would never date an out of shape man" (which ironically, would include many thin people). Number 9 is probably the dumbest comment I've ever seen a person come up with. The stinkiest farts I've ever smelled in my life came from guys half my size. You shouldn't believe such stupid stereotypes. |
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said this on 14 Sep 2008 6:33:32 PM EST
If only there were a place for artificial, superficial, stuck up, narcissistic, ego maniacal, cunt rag like you.....oh wait, there is! dating websites! Thats right bitch, I bet you have several dating profiles don't you? Do most of them start off with "Why can't I find a good guy?" and end with "must have the body of Adonis, cock like Mandingo, and Loaded like Bill Gates". Your whats wrong with America's body image problem. You think slender is sexy and muscle means health....NOT! More of these so called "healthy" people, keel over and die everyday, than more fat guys do. As far as sex with your bulimic ass goes....the only reason I'd keep the lights on while pumpin your dumper, is to make sure your not ransacking my nightstand.
Please do the world a favor and hang yourself in your closet with piano wire, and make sure its dipped in some really pretty smelling perfume, that way your rotting corpse doesn't smell like a fat guy's fart. Get a life bitch. |
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said this on 03 Oct 2008 5:00:06 AM EST
This woman is a dumbass. I am and have always been a fat guy, and people flock to me, including some beautiful women. I'm not saying that overeating is a good decision, but I am saying that everyone has their victories and failures - one of my failures might be overeating, while yours might include being a social dumbass. I am very far from a lazy couch potato:
As a matter of fact, the reason I came across this article was because I have some time left before a late date with an absolutely beautiful woman who ironically was a model for years - I was hoping to find an article to give me some confidence that maybe I'd have a chance with her, because sometimes I think that despite my hours of weekly workouts I'm not fit enough to be with her. But this article made me feel like shit because of a problem any human could have. Thanks for making me feel like I can't be with this girl who I think I'm falling in love with. And as for weight being a sign of other problems: I have a 148 IQ (clinically tested, with the average person's IQ being 100), I'm a published writer, I'm more active than most men, I have played the guitar, bass guitar, drums, and piano expertly for cash for years, and I still have friends from a decade ago, which is saying alot for someone who's 21 years old. I may not get to be with the beautiful girls the first time I see them, but when I am it's because they look around and realize how great of a guy I am after all the prettyboys make them cry. You act as if you're God's gift to Men, and you need to grow up and realize that different people have different problems and triumphs. I may weigh more than I should, but I also treat people - especially women - like kings and queens, and the beautiful, get-any-guy-she-wants woman who I'm seeing in half an hour, said yes when I asked her out. |
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said this on 25 Nov 2008 1:17:42 AM EST
Preference in what it is you find attractive for yourself is fine and what you are willing to date is great for you personally, but that doesn't give you the right to talk bad about, make generalizations about, and use stereotypes in trying to sway people from not dating someone simply because they are fat. That is very shallow and makes people that think that way ugly and unattractive. What is the difference in that and not dating someone b/c they are black, or Asian, or tall ect... I am overweight, fat, chubby, husky, or whatever else you want to call me. I am athletic, strong, trained, and tough. I wrestled, played football, played rugby, and trained with MMA fighters in grappling and Thai boxing for a short time (1 year). I am a healthy, active, smart college student, a paramedic, and a great friend to my family and friends. Everyone I come in contact with likes me for who I am as a person and has dated me because I am an awesome human being. I am not judgmental of others based on ridiculous things like how they look. I stimulate people in more than one aspect, and take people for who they are as a person as long as they are good, kind, and caring human beings. I am not ugly, and carry my weight well. Treat others as you want to be treated and what goes around comes around are all very true statements. If everyone treated, or at least most people treated others the way they would want to be treated the world would be a much nicer place. Before I became a medic and pre-med student I worked in a bar/club from the age of 18-25. I bartended for the remaining few years that I worked there dealing with people from all walks of life from the neighborhood drunk old creepy man, career driven professionals, college students, hot sexy people, fat people, ugly people ect. ect. ect. What I found from observing everything around me and dealing with the masses of people was interesting. Many of the hot, sexy, good looking men and women had the worst relationship problems and were actually the defective ones emotionally/mentally despite the sexy, toned, and fit outer shell. Many of them were completely stupid not having an ounce of brain in their head and honestly that is the biggest turn off to many people I have talked to regardless if they are sexy looking or not. I still can remember talking to the sexiest girl one night, getting her number and talking to her only to realize that she was uninteresting, shallow, and way to materialistic, she was also an emotional wreck. When I told her I wasn't interested in dating her she flipped out and didn't understand because she was so hot and guys dump her all the time. I have met and talked to some of the sexiest and really realized that beauty is only skin deep. Sure, I can be guilty of checking out the hotties and wondering what nailing her would be like, but it only goes that far if she has an ugly personality. Why do you think many shallow and sexy chicks always get dumped on and are emotional wrecks worrying about and putting so much into looks? It is b/c you are really insecure and care about what other ppl think so much you let it rule your life. Guys don't want to end up with you, they want to use you and toss you to the curb. Wow, that sounds like fun. Many men I talk to always say, yeah I'd hit it but when asked would you rather have a hot, sexy, shallow women to marry or a physically average woman with a great personality and kind heart, they almost 99.9% of the time choose #2. The truth is many years from now, toward the end of your life, when you are with a person just based on looks or how toned they are, you will be a very unhappy person. Looks eventually go out the window with the six pack abs, and eventually the body slows. You or your partner, if not divorced by then, are a wrinkled mess of your former youthful bodies, and you will hopefully realize that it doesn't matter how you look, but what kind of personality you have and what kind of person you are. You will no doubt be haunted, while sitting waiting for death, by the memories of all the bad, hurt, and pain, you caused others in your lifetime regardless of what it was for. Most of the time the single, sexy people end up in nursing homes starring at a wall, pooping themselves because they don't have anyone that want to take care of them b/c they were ugly people on the inside despite being sexy at one time. Never judge a book by its cover, and if you do you will be the one missing out. I have dated sexy people and overweight people, in both types personalities rule out over looks after a few months anyway. Before I go I would also like to say, every girl I have been with has had an orgasm and even the hot, fit ones couldn't keep up with me but for some reason they kept coming back for more. I have also seen many fit, toned, athletic people with health problems such as heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, and high cholesterol. Even thin and sexy ppl that worked out all the time were unmotivated, lazy, losers that have nothing else going for them despite being hot and fit. I can understand not being attracted to someone, sure there are many people that I have turned down, and have turned me down but as least I did it because I didn't feel a click with them and based it hardly on looks. Just to make something else clear, while you think you are so much better b/c of how you look, remember that everyone else around you probably thinks you are an asshole, or a slut, and are talking about you… not good things either. Trust me I have heard it all. As Biggie Smalls once said “ I’m fat, ugly, and have a crooked eye and a speech impediment, and I get more pussy than anyone else around me “
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said this on 26 Nov 2008 8:44:18 AM EST
I laugh every time you typed “intellectually speaking” or “let’s get intellectual here.”
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said this on 22 Dec 2008 5:01:06 AM EST
#6 and #9 made me laugh. Not because you were funny, but because you sound like such a shallow, stuck up, self-absorbed dumb bitch. It's shallow whores like you who give us girls a bad rep. How could you not think a woman was stupid for thinking this?
You have a big heart? Unlikely. If you did have a big heart (or a heart at all, for that matter) you'd know that overweight people have feelings. This kind of article doesn't prove anything other than how completely heartless you are. Fat or skinny, short or tall, black or white, we are all human and all deserved to be treated with respect. I utterly despise disrespectful people like you. What a sad excuse for a life is this is the attitude you have towards certain types of people. |
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said this on 24 Dec 2008 2:10:15 AM EST
Sorry I am not going to be PC about it. Personally my only problem with fat men is the way they look - I think they look ugly. I feel nauseous when a fat person stand in front of me fully dressed, and I usually focus on their eyes to avoid looking at the rest of their bodies. If a fat person got naked in front of me I would throw up. I am sure their personalities are just as good as anyone's and I don't think they are lazy people or different in anyway from skinny people other than being fat. My only problem with fat people is the way they look, so I wouldn't date a fat man because I want to enjoy seeing my man naked.
Once I thought "don't be shallow, personality is enough" and I went on two dates with this guy, he went as if to kiss me and I threw up in my mouth, I turned my face head a little and gave him a huge hug while swallowing the vomit. It turned out he had a bad personality too because when I told him I "wasn't ready for a relationship" and maybe we could just be friends, he started insulting me and I hung up the phone, but there are slim guys with bad personalities too and I don't date them, so even if this guy had been slim his personality would likely have come out and things wouldn't have worked out, but it takes longer for personality to come through, his fatness however, grossed me off right off the bat. I spent an hour trying to philosophize about how he might be a great guy and I should stick with it, we had a good conversation, but when he went to kiss me, the puke just came out, and there is nothing more gross than having to swallow puke. |
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said this on 26 Dec 2008 4:30:31 PM EST
The article sure was amusing but its nothing compared to the all the responses from morons that trying to prove differently in this blog forum or what ever this is, this seriously made my day and i laughed so much that, for a few seconds there i thought i was going to suffocate, seriously thanks! good article that should give women the confidence to date someone in their league.
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said this on 15 Jan 2009 12:42:30 AM EST
Have you ever thought of taking him to the over weight guy to the gym and exercise with him. Also have you ever dated a musculine gym addicted guy?..well ill tell you, they are so full of themselve and think that all girls love them...they dont even care if they hurt you cause they can always meet another girl who drools at them. Another thing to consider is THAT THE OVERWEIGHT GUY WONT DUMP YOU IF YOU PACK IN THE WEIGHT IF YOU GET KIDS...
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said this on 01 Feb 2009 1:54:03 AM EST
Look, for the first time in my life I really tried not to be like how you are talking. Because, I felt everyone needs love, and I didn't want descriminate either. I always go for the jock the 6-pack dude, the professional bodybuilder winner, the MMA 15/1 fighter, the black belt kick your ass with one finger, the nerdy buff computer programmer, and I thought OMG I am really getting around! What's wrong, we'd break up because of another really hott girl would get his eye and I couldn't deal. SOOoooo....I met this guy pretty cute face, nice smile beautiful eyes, gentle 300lb giant, an ex--hockey player who never went to the gym since high school. But continued to eat 3 $6 burgers from carls' and then wash it down with a liter of coke a cola!!! holy shit, watching him eat and only chew for three rounds made me sick to my stomach, his nose would run like crazy when he would have this eating sessions everyday sometimes I witnessed it 2 a day. I started to think about the Austin Powers movies, with agent shag a lot and when she goes undercover with FatBastard!!! I would imagine in my mind that I could see x-ray and that a 6-pack was there and I started to see him as an anatonomy book pictures of muscles just covered up by layers of invisible see through skin. UGHHH!!! We went to the movies we had to sit the very back of the theater in the handicap because he couldn't fit in any of the other places. I just kept it up because he had recently had a knee surgery and I thought well this could happen to anyone. I kept on dating him...until I gave him "get shredded" pill supplements, then I was obessed with getting him to the gym. I go for atleast 10hrs a week, yoga, weight lifting, and cardio. He would just say all these things. "I'm not going to go to the gym, I have had a membership for 12 years and its a meat market to pick up on people. I hate working out. It's pointless, it's dumb and hell no I won't go." I got really sad because I thought he was saying I was dumb because I go all the time, and it's pointless to work out more than 20min a day. It actually pissed me off. He made a comment, " You'll never be fat, just stand next to me and you'll always be skinny." I honestly, I seems like he was getting bigger by the day. and MY view of him was becoming very scary. I imagined him, in bed and we'd be old and one day he would croak because of a cardiac arrest, and we would have to cut the wall into opening for them to crane his but out. Then he actually said that thing that I was thinking. spooky.
Then, I told him I am getting ready for the NPC figure event, that's when he let me know what was on his mind about the whole thing. Anyhow, this was very difficult and he did have alot of anger issues, and he felt that he was a loser, this I felt bad and tried to be friends but he was like ,"go to hell" Trust me, I tried in the most approachable ways of discussing health and eating in healthy portions, but our live styles are so different it was a shot in hell. To this day I feel bad for him, yet I'm not a professional psychologist, but he didn't get very suicidal and I couldn't date him just cause I felt sorry for him. That to me is shallow, and maybe it's pretty sick, but I don't think I would ever go out with someone again that has 50% body fat again. I get chills every time I see biggest loser, because of flashbacks. He is a good looking guy underneath all that low selfesteem, obesity & sadness. I just couldn't go through it with him. He self hatred and hatred to other's became very apparent and abusive at times. I guess, it's true...what you say...but I do agree with the other guy that everybody's farts STINK...not just fat guys!! I failed to motivate him into fitness, that is my shortfailings. His problems are deeper than I can ever imagine. |
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said this on 06 Feb 2009 6:46:13 AM EST
I can admit, I am slim and good looking - this does not make us vain nor in love with ourselves.
Its some thing most have lost, true confidence. I refuse to be called a snob because I love me, what is so god darn wrong with that!? NONE of you can deny that if you had to choose between a sweet fat guy & a sweet slim guy you would take the second choice. I do think weight is a reflection on your health/life choices, sorry but i truly do. I have seen people that have been overweight their whole lives but then lost all the weight when they really wanted to do so, and put their whole heart in it. I like good looking men, always will. Besides, some of the most arrogant men I have met are overweight. All who say don't judge by looks are hypocrites, you sit there saying all of US are vain and shallow. |
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said this on 19 Feb 2009 2:44:56 PM EST
Lighten up people. The gal expressed her opinion of why SHE wouldnt date a fat guy! And for that shes called every swear word in the dictionary??? Who cares? I dont date fat women because thats not the type of gal im attracted to! Doesnt mean i dont have any larger women as friends though! You all need to get a life!
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said this on 07 Mar 2009 12:00:22 PM EST
1 reason why your a bitch: because you took the time to write this whole article about how much you hate fat people.
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said this on 17 Mar 2009 5:41:55 PM EST
dumb bitch,
okay i understand where youre coming from but com'on! youre seriously shallow as hell. i, in fact, like big boys :) im 19, 5'8" and 100lbs. no, im not anorexic, i eat like insane but i have an extremely fast metabolism and i guess the weight just drops to my boobs :) in high school i dated this guy who was 5'5" and a little over 200lbs. of course people asked me why i was with him, but seriously, he was the most sweetest guy ever! we dated for almost three years. his farts weren't any different than an ordinary fart. he smelt oh so delicious he was extremely active in bed. in fact, he was like an energizer bunny...it was sooo cute! i absolutely LOVE seeing him naked i NEVER was embarrassed to be seen with him i eat wayyy more than him his mother raised him to be the perfect gentleman and he grew up with an extremely loving family, so he grew up being a very happy person :) AND he does not take up the whole bed. im thin and guess what? i take up the bed. i always smush him everywhere lol so take that into consideration. another thing, muscular men are very: arrogant, cocky, overly confindent, cheating bastards. after my sweet pea, i dated a six foot 240, now 210, steriod using twenty year old. since he was "rich and handsome" he took advantage of all the girls he could get and played me. he and i dated for about five months. although i felt like we 'clicked', since we could spend hours and hours of alone time and have soo much fun, i dont want to put up with him anymore. i hated to come over and keep finding girl items in his bedroom. not a good way to start my day... ok, well i got things to do, so think about it! |
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said this on 27 Mar 2009 4:36:15 PM EST
ok...i have to admit i did have MDS like ya girl Elaine for awhile. haven't heard of that? it's that Miss Diva Syndrome where females think they are the SHIT and look down on people because of their appearance. so, yeah, miss elaine here has been medically diagnosed and i will tell her of the disadvantages of her chosen ways. first of all, i'm black so in my opinion we might differ in what we consider "fat". i would say that i am not fat....i used to be more athletically built but now i'm like 5'8 and 140 lbs and i'm 20 to further expand on your knowledge of me. all my life i've attracted larger guys (as well as all body types) but i didn't give them the time of day. but these past months i've met someone and he's nothing like i've ever dated but he is too sweet, considerate and funny and everything i could want. (by the way he's 6'2 and 270 lbs) he has a great personality and i definitely see myself dating him. BUT something that i feel big guys should do anyway from my experience in college and the guys that i have met: be the SHIT!! u know, show that swagger that you possess. u act like you are the greatest (but not too much so in a cocky way) and who the hell can tell you the difference. that skinny bitch that you shouldn't want in the first place (because of her personality) will look at you like: can i sign up for a piece of that?! but that's just how i feel and i said it in a more humorous way but every girl wants a guy that's confident in himself and can joke around!!
and commenting on the sex response miss elaine....my baby (i call him big ba-bay) whom i haven't had sex with has a very vigorous sex drive in which i can tell by the way he caresses me. and i have seen his dick so i would have to say i will be VERY satisfied every time we do have sex....trust me... |
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said this on 28 Mar 2009 5:17:42 PM EST
Wow, I don't think that you have ever loved anyone have you? You must not even love yourself, those that mock others are just insecure with themselves. Maybe you have some psychological issues that YOU need to work on such as-not being a raging bitch? I am not fat, I am not thin, I am very comfortable with the fact that I am an attractive woman and I don't need some buff guy to be with me so that I can look/feel better about myself when i'm in public. As long as a man takes good care of his woman and makes her feel sexy it shouldn't matter what they look like. But i'll bet that you've been cheated on because you can't look past abbs and a tan body, and guys can see right through that facade. So good luck with your negative thoughts I hope that you find a tall, dark and handsome man thats as vain and shallow as you so that you can both be miserable for the rest of your lives.
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said this on 05 Apr 2009 3:28:03 PM EST
Although I don't agree with all the points in general, I agree that I wouldn't date a fat guy.
Call me whatever, but I think that in a successful relationship you need to have some physical attraction, and I am not attracted to guys who are obese - they repel me and turn me off. Also, I love doing physical, sporty stuff, and I'd want any guy I was in a relationship with to enjoy the same sort of things. Obviously a fat guy wouldn't - nobody I know who does the same stuff as me is fat. Also, quick note to all the enraged fatties out there - a point you all seem to make is that you get lots of hot girls anyway/ hot pussies whatever. This seems to me hugely hypocritical. Why would you boast about that when by your own argument weight/hotness/sex appeal counts for nothing? |
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said this on 23 Apr 2009 1:31:42 AM EST
oh I am vain and I am shallow.... I am also bigger than most women like to date. However, when they either date or hook up with me most if not all are very satisfied. The bigger problem for Ellaine is that she would not be on my radar... she is that super hot broad with no, I mean no remorse for any actions, and I'm willing to bet hasn't been able to tell a man (other than a fat guy) no.... She isn't the girl drinking a beer or a mixed drink with a group of friends. She is probably the girl sitting with two other extremely shallow and lonely women at the bar hoping fat guy's will come along and buy her drinks so she can tell them she's not interested after she has had her fill of martinis.
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said this on 01 May 2009 8:23:18 PM EST
she is being honest and its true a lazy inactive person who over eats will be fat if he trained and lost weight like others have including oprah he will get more respect from society
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said this on 01 May 2009 8:26:47 PM EST
they will justify anything to make an excuse to do work discipline, inner qualities show up in physical pride of ones health. Its easy not to lose weight and stayunfit and sit on the couch watching tv and making excuses for your unhealthy lazy lifestyle..
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said this on 20 May 2009 4:21:32 AM EST
Wow you're an idiot.
My boyfriend is big. He runs faster than his fit and buff friends. Yes that's true. they're all like wtf, how do you run so fast. He's stronger than them. Has a lot more stamina and energy than I do. He eats less than I do. Maybe you should consider sometimes it is genetics. My boyfriend takes care of himself. He does his own laundry, cleans his house, takes care of his sister, does whatever his mom is supposed to do around the house. He loves hiking with me, is not lazy at all. Maybe that's just how some people are. I "act" more like a fat person than he does, and I'm 10lbs underweight. and pretty. And when you say "intellectually speak" how is it intelligent of you when everything you said has been repeated in news articles over and over again.. fat people, sometimes they're alot better than that pretty skinny people... and you're evidence of that. |
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said this on 31 May 2009 4:29:05 AM EST
A fat guy's farts smell worse than anyone elses? Why are you so stupid?
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said this on 02 Jun 2009 10:59:10 PM EST
I completely agree with the author. Anyone who's left negative feedback is either a fat loser or a girl who can't get anything but a fat loser.
At first, I was nice to fat men, but they are some of the biggest hypocrites ever. How many fat men do you know want to date fat women? Most fat men want a THIN BEAUTIFUL woman, yet if any woman voices her preference for an athletic attractive man, fat men will insult her using the most degrading and sexist terms, just like the fat men who have posted above. As for having unhappy relationships, a few of my friends who have had the misfortune of dating fat men have said that overweight men are emotional wrecks. Out of insecurities and fears, they are possessive, depressed, paranoid, and carry much more baggage than their thinner, more attractive counterparts. Listen fat men, you're not entitled to thin beautiful women. Face the reality that we would never pick you over the athletic attractive men, date someone in your own league, and leave us alone. |
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said this on 30 Jun 2009 8:34:58 AM EST
I am a 6 foot tall 280 pound happy fat man my farts do stink, but I could out run you any day up stairs or not. It is really stupid to generalize about any of this such as the inner problems being the root cause that may be the case most of the time but that does not mean that every fat guy has emotional problems and half of them that do are caused by people like you who are discouraging and judgemental.
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said this on 30 Jun 2009 9:07:41 PM EST
100% true, sadly but still true. Stop pointing fingers at others and hit the gym :-)
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said this on 01 Jul 2009 12:42:57 AM EST
It's stuck up bitches like you that give other girls with a heart a bad name. People like you make me glad that you're either cheated on or slapped silly by some buff skinny guy. Yet you girls bitch about why it happens to you. Maybe it has something to do with personaility. Ever consider that you self coencited bitch? I actually prefer more volumunus women. More cushin for the pushin. As for the "possessive, depressed, paranoid, and carry much more baggage" that's a crock of shit. Lastly nobody is entitled to a beautiful women however they're not entitled to stuck up aritificial bitchassness. Grow up little girl
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said this on 12 Jul 2009 5:46:26 AM EST
I dated a fat ass for three years... All the things you said are true. From a non-shallow viewpoint, no, he won't have the energy to keep up with you in bed, no, he won't be able to complete with you in sports, and yes, he will encourage you to break your diet.
And as Belle said, yes, they are emotional wrecks! The one I was with cried over everything! And he loved to blame everything on me. Every suicidal thought was somehow my fault and I had to bend over backwards to make sure I didn't say something that would hurt his feelings. He even made me watch chick flicks with him! Also adding onto Belle's post, this guy did think he was entitled to a thin, beautiful woman. I was 5' 9", 125 lbs, and a D cup, and all he could do was compare me to women he found more attractive and make me feel like I was the fat one. He would complain how I should be thinner and that I should get a boob job because a 34D just wasn't big enough for his tastes. As far as paranoia goes, he saw a girl in an amateur porno who had my ass, so he accused me of making porn behind his back and wouldn't drop it even after we broke up. He also used my history of sexual abuse to hurt me when he wasn't getting his way with me :( Seriously, fat guys, if 80% of you weren't like him, and if you'd keep your ridiculously hairy man-breasts covered while we're out in public, and make an effort to work out, maybe those of us with discerning tastes wouldn't feel this way about you. |
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said this on 16 Jul 2009 8:50:19 AM EST
LMAO! omg, I know how you feel honestly I
have super high confidence and High self esteem so I'm looking for a guy who can be my equal where I wouldn't want another hottie, I mean my motto is "To want the best, you gotta be the best" There is nothing wrong with being shallow! Its healthy and how the world really works I would know, I used to be the chubby girl, and when I got sexy HELL! You should of seen the people who were my friends and new boyfriends, so girls, if you want to date fatty, go ahead more hotties for me and the author of this page. |
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said this on 31 Jul 2009 2:28:59 AM EST
Why would someone write this article in this first place? If that's how you feel keep it to yourself. No one is asking you to date a fat man or anyone else you would prefer not to date.
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said this on 04 Aug 2009 1:20:17 AM EST
SHHHHHHHHH!!!!
Damn all of you are annoying! Look, being fat is hard, and being an alcoholic isnt? We all have are problems and the one who think they can hide it our immature. We all have HUGE problems for some people its telling the truth! Like they always lie about anything and everything and they struggle with that. Some people struggle with going for there dreams, they just go through the motions. What ever the FUCK ur shit is, it doesn't matter. If ur fat.....im sorry that the world sees what ur weakness is....... The best thing to do, is to just LOVE people. We live once and if you dont feel loved....its most likely because you dont LOVE people or yourself. |
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said this on 04 Aug 2009 9:30:27 PM EST
Fact 1. I am not "overweight" or "fat"
Fact 2. My brother is pretty fat, close to obese...and I can't stand the look of him, esp when he wears t-shirts that are to small and you can see his bottom gut and man boobs. I obviously don't say this out-loud, it's just in my head..due to this I cannot date overly fat women, it has nothing to do with them it's just the mental image of my brother I keep seeing so it puts me off (lol I know) Fact 3. What you have to realise is you're only going to have a nice body from 20 years old to 30 at most. Final fact directed at the original poster and anyone else reading this comment, mainly the ladies... If you continue to live this way, you will end up being 40-50+ years old and alone. |
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said this on 12 Aug 2009 12:16:02 PM EST
I found this article while doing research for a possible book on Fat Man Game.
This is article is funny. I think a big part of it is most most big men have low self esteem. Especially if they let things like this article bring them down. I was one of those guys at one time. Notorious B.I.G. had Faith Evans. If a fat guy like him with a lazy eye can marry like that and have top notch women fighting over him, yeah, I can to. I know Tony Soprano was a fictional character but there are a lot like him in real life. You have to believe your the shit if you expect anyone else believe it. I am a connoisseur. I've had the best food, best drink, best women. I have been known to indulge a little those things. Ive hooked up with chicks who have said some of the same things in this articles and had them chasing me later. You just haven't met the right fat man. |
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said this on 14 Aug 2009 4:04:58 PM EST
You know what I don't understand? Why some people don't get that there are a lot of 'fat' guys that could easily beat the shit out of 'fit' guys. In any way too. Think about that for a bit. What's even funnier is the fact that 'fat' guys are generally nicer people.
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said this on 20 Aug 2009 5:57:30 AM EST
hahahaha!!! the part about the fat ppl can't run is not true....I am overweight I have to say it but not 260 lbs!! I weight 200 lbs and I'm able to run a 40 yard dash in 4.4 seconds!! so this thing about the running is false!! U are so damn shallow!! and thats not good at all.....
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said this on 08 Sep 2009 4:45:57 PM EST
I happen to agree with most of what you wrote, but still think that Elaine Jacelle is a cunt! The fact that most of what you wrote is true, or factually correct, does not make you any less a cunt. That said I can not fault you for not wanting a fat man or even being politically incorrect. In fact I personally would NEVER go for fat chicks, even if my standards are rediculously high, so I can not blame you for having a strong preference for fit men. However, my issue is with the tone, not so much the substance of your ten-point diatribe, namely that notwithstanding the valid points, the construction of yout message makes you come off as an obnoxious, vapid bitch and a dumb bimbo with nothing between the ears.
Point # 1 is, in and of itself, a nonissue, at least to someone with any genuine self control. I agree that (assuming that said fat person is fat due to gluttonous eating habits) watching anyone pig out is almost always boring, you do not HAVE to join in. If anything, you can persuade them to *eat less* or you would at least try to if you care about someone at all. (You moronically assume that fat people are usually fat JUST BECAUSE they eat a lot. While this is obviously a contributing factor, physical activity or lack thereof usually plays a significantly greater role than how much one eats. For example many athletic people eat like pigs while many fat people eat moderately, yet they still end up fat, usually due to lack of exercise or prolonged physical inactivity. That said, diet goes a long way, and fat people can manage their weight by substituting food choices for options lower in fats and sugars, without starving themselves. In fact, less than half a century ago, people did not have nearly as many weight-related problems as they now do even though they ate just as much, if not more, and food was typically higher in calories. This is due mainly to an increasingly sedentary livelihood.) Points 2-8 and # 10 are true most of the time, or else strictly a matter of opinion, albeit justifiable opinions. For instance, I too tire of the rampant political correctness regarding weight issues. In MOST cases being fat is ultimately voluntary. While there are rare exceptions, cases where an inborn defect may cause an individual to be overweight, for the overwhelming majority of people it is their own fault for being fat. Overall, I say that you are justified in thinking that fat people can control their weight and therefore deserve no special sympathy. However, I am also glad that you clarified by stating, "Okay, not-the-typical-me, but let’s get intellectual here," as indeed, I do not see a vapid superficial harlot such as yourself as an intellectual giant, but then your failed attempt at pop psychology is in fact pseudo-intellectual. Point # 9 is just fucking retarded! Even to the extent that fat people are more gluttonous, and that their eating habits and food choices produce more gas in digestion. The corelation between being fatter and being gassier or having "stinkier farts" is a weak one at best. After all, aren't the "healthful" foods that "healthy" (i.e. physically fit) people are supposed to eat the most fart-inducing: beans, lentils, carrots, cabbage, etc.? I do not think the stereotype that fatter people rip more sick ass is a very reliable one. Regardless, this is a moot point. Earth to Elaine, farts are not supposed to smell nice! What do you plan to do, put your open mouth over your man's anus and inhale his fumes? On a related note I suspect you are fond of providing rimjobs. Lest you wonder, I am no advocate of "fat acceptance." Every person ought to at least make an effort to maintain a heathly figure. There is nothing inherently wrong with being shallow, epsecially for guys (because females of the species generally lack personality so appearance is basically all we have to chose from), so I sympathize with Kendra's perspective. That said, I wish more women would be more shallow. At least then, I could compete by striving to be as fit and handsome as possible, and I would know what to strive for. When women select guys based on "personality" they always select from the worst of men! Why do girls always go for assholes? I can strive to lose weight and muscle-up. I am not there yet, but I am working on that goal and hopefully will attain it soon. I am already more handsome than most, but I see so many girls with fat and/or ugly guys. They must have great personalities, right? WRONG! The ladies do not like nice guys, sweet guys, gentlemen, quiet guys, et. al. disregarding whatever smokescreen they blow out of their asses. Remember girls, guys who are nice and sweet are obviously gay. Perfect gentlemen are boring prudes. Quiet guys are either awkward nerds or serial killers. See what I mean? Chicks dig the arrogant, over-confident douchebag. At least if more women would look at appearances first, then maybe I can have a chance. Some day I hope to have an eight-pack, full sculpted arms, and chiseled features. I am slowly getting there, but my only hope is that this distracts the broads from average looking guys and ugly/fat dudes with the douchey personalities they love so much. For that to happen, however, more girls need to drop the phony pretense of being "not-shallow" and stop going for guys based on personality (which is all for the better seing that women have shitty taste in personality anyways). |
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said this on 21 Sep 2009 2:08:00 AM EST
im with a 'fat' guy :d best thing i ever done, my god he can really work it in the sack!
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said this on 01 Oct 2009 11:20:22 PM EST
So, when you say munching on your favorite desert...do you mean the Sahara or the Syrian? Perhaps the Great Victoria tantalizes your tastebuds more? So, I bet when your boyfriends hang out with you, they lose all sense of grammar, huh? Next time you're going to be an asshole on the internet, maybe you should proofread first.
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said this on 01 Oct 2009 11:39:07 PM EST
Is this a joke? Does the person who wrote this think she DOES NOT have psycological issues?? My gosh, I cant wait until you mindless idiots grow the hell up. I cant wait until you come across someone whose appetite has nothing to do with the way they look - are you really so stupid to believe that every fat person in the world is that way solely because of what they eat? Seriously are you that dumb, or that young? I cant wait until youre all alone and rejected one day, someone as immature and shallow as you could never have a real relationship...right? When youre all alone with nothing but your assinine thoughts - you remember this crap you wrote. Perhaps it will keep you company.
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said this on 06 Oct 2009 11:48:36 PM EST
Lady, you are an airhead. You are way too vain and narcisistic, and it seems you only know fat guys from cartoons and Eddie Murphy movies. Worse part is, you seem to be proud of being a cartoonish bimbo.
But you are correct in one thing: You can't fake attraction. Not really. You ought to be with someone you fancy. That much is true. And that's why you are likely to suffer at the hands of someone just as superficial and assinine as you. Because it's one thing that you consider yourself "hot" and another one to actually be as hot as you would like to be. And let me tell you, the way you demand nothing short of perfection in a partner sounds like you believe yourself to be hotter than Katherine Heigl. Considering how such women are quite scarce, odds are very much against you. And about your showcase of idiotic blurbs: 1 - You mean you have no willpower? No mind of your own? Then you are as guilty of No. 4 as a fat guy. Plus, most guys (fat or otherwise) try to score points with their dates by taking them to places (they think) their dates like. That means you probably will have a low carb choice... if you want it, that is. 2- Then you are too young, dumb, naïve or inexperienced to truly enjoy sex as much as you make it sound. The indians wrote a book about sex positions a few centuries ago. You might want to check it out. Even you might get a couple of sex moves out of that book that could allow you to have sex with a fat man. Also, you seem to be oblivious to the fact that women can have an active role during intercourse. 3- Or it could be genetics. True, most fat people can control their weights if they really try, but they can't completely fight who they are. They are bound to retain some extra weight despite their efforts. You could be rejecting a fine suitor because of you vacuous preconceptions. 4- See my answers for No.3 and No.1 5- It seems that I've misjudged you. You don't even have air in your head. Not even a molecule. You actually need your friends to approve your date before you decide if you like him or not. You are pitiful. 6- Yeah, don't let those "honest" kids and those annoying stares bother YOU. Because it's all about you. Nevermind the large fella. And speaking of being the star of the show, I'm glad you think that way, because that way you'll understand when your date dumps you for a hotter girl, you know, in order to be the center of attention. 7- Yeah, if you live in Japan. Otherwise, what you've said makes no sense. Even a size 50 fits comfortably in an average compact car. 8- Epic fail at "being hilarious". And you obviously have never been loved before. A guy in love is capable of going through things you couldn't possibly imagine. 9 - And I bet you actually love the smell of your own farts. Stop watching movies about black comedians in fat suits. Those movies make you write embarrassing things. 10- Shallow doesn't mean "bold and honest". It isn't a name people call you out of impotent frustration. Shallow means exactly that. It's an insult. It means your opinions are worthless. It' nothing to be proud of. |
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said this on 13 Oct 2009 5:02:41 PM EST
Being tempted to eat when a fat guy is eating just goes to show your own lack of self-control.
You see someone eating something so you have to cram a load of food down your own throat? Maybe you should fix your own self-control issues before you start complaining about other people's. /b/ye /b/itch |
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said this on 10 Nov 2009 8:03:36 PM EST
although every point made here is potentially true, with certain people and certain situations, its clear you only side on that fact because you havent met an amazing person whos perfect for you... and just happens to be overweight. You might not ever find that if you dont allow yourself to be, but thats your choice and that is ok too! there plenty of fish in the sea. and plenty of lovable whales to, if youd like to say it like that. ANYONE can be THE ONE... its whether you come across that person or not, and who knows whether theyll be fat or not. As far as only choosing a fit man, well its a choice you have the right for, but i think you sound like a real ass joking about the issue, and for that i dont respect your opinion. So im curious... skinny people have never been through anything in there life then? and they cant be a mess? The difference between a fat person and a skinny one is experience to life, they know what vulnerability is like, they know how to read an asshole cause theyve delt with um plenty, and better yet, they know how to treat people with heart, they arent nearly as fake, lost, or misinformed, that being said, there is good and bad of all shapes and sizes and colors(let me guess you got a top ten when you cant date a negro too?, not surprised), its all a matter of PREFERANCE and your rudely outspoken reasoning makes you sound like a total ignorant ass, nough said.
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